Have you ever been on a date where everything seems to have gone well? You both had a great time and you really liked him and he gave you the impression that he liked you too. Then the date was over and you really looked forward to speaking and seeing him again. However, you didn’t hear from him immediately after the first date. If you have, you’re not alone. Women have been asking these questions: “Why didn’t he call me back?” “Why didn’t he call when he said he would?” and “Is he ever going to call?” There are many answers to these questions. Most men have their individual reasons; some of them are valid, some of them don’t make sense to women at all. Here are the most common reasons why he doesn’t call.
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• He doesn’t want to appear too eager. This is one of the most common reasons why he doesn’t call. This is mostly true in the early stages of a dating relationship. However, for the most part if he’s interested in you he will call. Although, he will call, he won’t call right away because he wants to give the girl the impression that he actually has a life outside of this dating relationship. Men are naturally hunters and they enjoy the thrill of the chase. They want to be in control of the chasing. In this case, he will call, but on his terms and his timing. Women often think if he doesn’t call back right away, it means something’s terribly wrong. They begin to second guess themselves and their perception of the situation becomes distorted. But wait, don’t jump to conclusions, this is not always the case, sometimes he’s just waiting for the right time.
• He changed his mind or is seeing someone else. Sometimes this is the case and before the date ends there’s usually some indication that he’s no longer interested in you or if there’s someone else that he’s seeing. Not calling you back because he’s no longer interested in you usually holds true in the early stages of the relationship. However, on the other hand if he’s out playing the field trying to get what he can on the side, he will call you back, but it will be sporadic or around that designated time when he’s trying to get something from you.
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• He’s UNABLE to call back right now. In these cases, he has a logical reason why he’s unable to call you back at the moment. Maybe he’s involved in a business deal, he may be away on a family emergency, or he may have a family emergency at home. Whatever the reason if he says he will call you back just be a little patient and wait until he does. Give him the time and space that he needs to conduct his business. He will respect and appreciate you more as a result. This is for those who have been involved with him for a few months, or a few dates, and are genuinely confused as to why he doesn’t call.
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• He’s upset. This is the most common reason for those who have been involved in a dating relationship for a little while. Out of the blue he suddenly becomes reserved and unresponsive, not calling is a pretty good sign that he’s upset. This doesn’t negate how he feels about you, and it doesn’t necessarily mean the end of the relationship, it’s just that he needs a little cooling-off time. Are you waiting for him to call and make up after a fight? Did you say or do something that you know caused him to be upset? Maybe he’s not upset with you in particular, but the relationship may be progressing in a way that he’s not use too causing him to reevaluate things. Not calling in situations like this would be his way of trying to sort it out on his own, before he has an actual conversation with you about it.
There’s a saying that out of sight is out of mind, that’s not always the case because in some cases absence makes the heart grows fonder. Some women even think that when he’s not calling, he’s just not that into me, that’s not the case either. Men are simple creatures contrary to what some women believe, and if they aren’t calling, there’s always a reason. It may not be a good one, but a reason nevertheless. Unfortunately, women have a tendency to jump to conclusions and think the worst. Why he doesn’t call isn’t always about the girl. Oftentimes just giving him the space he is taking without jumping to conclusion and thinking the worst will make you look favorable in his eyes.
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